I tapped the driver side nut with wing in through the hole on the back of the frame (side towards the rear of the jeep), tapped the nut with wing for the other side in through the hole on the front side of the crossmember (side towards the front of the jeep). Then using a screwdriver I got them facing the right direction and fed the wing part through the openings on the front side of the crossmember to where I could grab them with a finger. Then put the bolt in and started it. I left the wing on and through the holes to help hold the nut for tightening. That was on my 08 and when I traded it in I pulled them off to put on my 2014. That was also without the fascia piece. With the 2014 I think I'm going to get the fascia so idk for sure how to do that. As soon as I get it I'll try to chime in.