That's fine. You just seem defensive about it. What really matters is that two families lives have completely changed forever, there is a young girl in a hospital with catastrophic injuries, her mother is injured too, a father is helpless and suffering, the driver of the jeep, regardless of fault, is most likely an emotional wreck along with his passenger. Yet on various forums on the internet, people are sitting behind their keyboards blaming or defending a bumper depending on their perspective.
VERY well said!