This might be a tough pill for you to swallow, but mods are just members who volunteer their time to help keep things around here moving along. Our opinions and statements are just that...ours. Some of us have been volunteering our time doing this for over a decade. We’ve seen it all, heard it all, and are not shocked by anything. Nine times out of ten we can smell the bullshit and trolling coming long before regular members even see what is going on. Overlander’s BS detector is particularly acute...and accurate.
Regardless, those who choose to use sex to sell should not complain when they get treated as sex objects. That is, after all, their goal. Similarly, those who use sex to further their own builds should not purport to provide the “community” with value equivalent to those who provide real information and analysis.
Regarding YOUR perspective on what is or is not vulgar, consider the following. This is a forum for adults, not kids. If the words “fuck” or “whore” offend you that much then I’m sure there are safer places out there for you to frequent. Neither of those words give me heart palpitations.