Well, if you flipped the nylon washer to the bottom side of the mount, that's part of your problem. It should go on top, like the picture shows. If you look at the picture, the top metal ring on the coax should have continuity to ground. I ground off powder coat where the metal ring would sit, as well as the back side of the mount. Then ran a separate ground from the mount to the inside and grounded it to the tub where the tie down bolt goes through.
As luck would have it, I didn't have to touch the antenna tip! I had perfect 1.2-1.3 SWR right out of the gate
EDIT: Verify a good ground on the tie-down with an ohm meter. If I remember right, the closest point didn't have a good ground (I was reading like 40ohms). I had to use the hole that's closest to the back seat, which had 0-1ohm resistance.