If you have, or know someone that has, a portable band saw, just trim your lug studs. Buy a regular nut same thread size and pitch, run it on stud, cut stud to desired length, run nut off to clean the end. Repeat and rinse.Well... Turned out to have the same issue. The 1.9" lug nuts will not work with my wheels either. Off to find something else!
You're probably looking at 1/4" you're cutting off, not going to hurt a thing.